Ten years ago today, I was involved in a fatal car accident. I was a senior in high school and went on a date to see the lights at Temple Square. As we were leaving my neighborhood (literally a block away from my home) a man ran in front of our car. I was in the passenger seat, buckling in my seat belt when the windshield caved in. The man had just gotten off the bus stop and was crossing the dark street when we hit him. He was conscious when the ambulance arrived, but he died at the hospital due to internal bleeding. I am sure his wife, children and grandchildren are thinking about him today.
This morning, as I was reading the Conference Ensign, I came across an address from Elder Claudio R. M. Costa that seemed to hit home. Elder Costa talk is entitled
Don't Leave for Tomorrow What You Can Do Today In it, he reads a poem by Norma Cornett Marek, entitled "Tomorrow Never Comes"
If I knew this would be the last time I would watch you sleep,
I would hug you tighter. I would plead with the Lord to protect you.
If I knew this would be the last time I saw you walk out the door,
I would hug and kiss you and call you back to hug and kiss you one more time.
If I knew this would be the last time I would hear your voice in prayer,
I would record every gesture, every look, every smile, every one of your words,
So that I could listen to it later, day after day.
If I knew this would be the last time,
I would spend an extra minute or two to tell you, "I love you," instead of assuming you already knew it.
If I knew this would be our last time, our last moment,
I would be by your side, spending the day with you instead of thinking,
"Well, I'm sure other opportunities will come, so I can let this day go by."
Of course there will be a day to revise things,
And we would have a second chance to do things right.
Oh, of course there will be another day for us to say, "I love you."
And certainly there will be another chance to tell each other, "Can I help with anything?"
But in my case, there isn't one!
I don't have you here with me, and today is the last day we have—our farewell.
Therefore I would like to say how much I love you,
And I hope you never forget it.
Tomorrow is not promised to anyone, young or old.
Today might be your last chance to hold tight to the hand of the one you love and show all you feel.
If you are waiting for tomorrow, why not do it today?
Because if tomorrow never comes, you certainly will regret for the rest of your life
Not having spent some extra time for a smile, a conversation, a hug, a kiss,
Because you were too busy to give that person what ended up being their last wish.
Then hug tight today the one you love, your friends, your family, and whisper in their ears how much you love them and want them close to you.
Use your time to say,
"I'm sorry,"
"Please,"
"Forgive me,"
"Thank you,"
Or even,
"That was nothing,"
"It's all right,"
Because if tomorrow never comes, you will not have to regret today.
The past doesn't come back, and the future might not come!
Today, I am going to tell my loved ones how much I care,
hold my children a little tighter...
and make sure that my sweet husband knows he is MY #1.