Wednesday, November 16, 2011

career woman

When I was a little girl, I truly believed I was going to change the world. I wanted to become a writer, broadcast journalist and/or politician. The world needed strong, capable women, and I knew I was strong and capable.
Of course, I wanted to be a mother, too. But that would have to come after I had graduated from college and moved into the White House. It wasn't until I had my first baby that I realized that motherhood was my calling. There was nothing more important, more influential than rocking babies to sleep, reading stories and singing lullabies.
My baby girl is 6 weeks old. If I was a career woman, my maternity leave would be over and I would be back at the office. I can't tell you how grateful I am to have the opportunity to be a stay-at-home-mom. It's difficult and draining at times, but it's my dream job.
This week, Roma started smiling. Her smiles are quick and fleeting and she only offers them up a couple of times per day. But when she smiles, my whole world lights up. It's a better paycheck than anything I could earn outside the home.
My dreams of becoming a best-selling author or first female President have been replaced with smaller, obtainable goals. Today I hope to put away all the clean laundry, make a wholesome dinner for my family and take a shower. These goals may seem simple and pathetic to big-time career women, but I feel content, fulfilled and truly happy.
I will spend the next 20+ years trying to raise a strong, capable and confident little girl because we need more of them. And this is exactly how I can change the world.

9 comments:

Azy said...

lovely post! and so very true :)

Azy said...

oh and beautiful little smiling girly :)

PNRBAC said...

I love it Janet. You said it so well. This IS how we change the world! You have such a beautiful baby girl - isn't the smiley stage so fun!!

Kelly said...

Love it Janet!!! Roma is SO Darling!!!!

Valerie said...

Love it!Wish all my YW could read it!

Mari said...

What a doll-baby. You ARE doing the very greatest work! I think you made the right choice becoming a mother. Just look at all the beautiful people you have created . . . what can be more glorious than people-making? ;-) I respect you for your great work. You are a pro! You should be proud.

Anonymous said...

She's so precious:) She's going to be well protected by her clan of brothers!

Brandy said...

love it... i agree... best job ever!

melita said...

Roma looks beautiful. Raising children isn't easy, but it so rewarding and an amazing experience, that no job on earth can produce. I'm so glad your family is doing well. You are yet to come and visit us in San Fran. Have a great Thanksgiving!