best buds

Several weeks ago, we had a major bedroom renovation. Ben and Luke have never had separate rooms and we finally split them up! Although I love having them in the same room, I think it's caused Luke to become lazy. Ben is a neat freak (like his daddy) and won't let a single toy be out of place. So, at the end of the day, if their room was the least bit untidy, Ben would get busy putting away Luke's mess, whether it be toys, clothes or whatever. We thought it would be a good idea to give Ben a break and teach Luke the importance of cleaning up after himself.. it was a good idea, in the beginning.

We spent all day dividing their clothes and toys and both seemed excited about their very own rooms. However, it's been a month and ask me how many nights they have slept in their bedrooms alone? ZERO. Every night while brushing their teeth, the same question is asked: "Do you want to have a sleepover?" The other one always responds positively, and then they debate which room would be the best to sleep in. Yesterday, we decided to move them back together because it's easier having everything in one spot. "The separation" didn't seem to relieve Ben of the extra responsibilities or allow Luke to develop any cleaning skills. Not only did Ben keep his own room spotless, but after he finished, he went into Luke's room and to do the cleaning routine. I tried to stop it (even punishing Ben if he cleans too much) but it doesn't seem to make much of a difference. We are working on another solution....

Until then, we are grateful for their friendship and love for each other. They are such different little boys, but I believe that's exactly why they have always gotten along. Ben helps Luke SO much.. not just by doing his chores, but he's a great example in every way. And Luke is the best little buddy any brother could ask for. He's so easy going and SO much fun. Ben laughs at him all day and always wants him around. I love how well they get along and hope it continues until they are old and gray.

I went through my pictures to find a good shot for this post... and I was literally brought to tears. Not only do I have at least a HUNDRED pictures of the two of them, but in almost every pose, their arms are around each other or they are holding hands. I decided to do a collage because there were just too many.. (and this is only half of them!!) I got really emotional looking through these pictures because I am so grateful for their friendship.

Those early days of sleepless nights and two in diapers has totally paid off!!